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I love this film as much as any other girl who was raised on a steady diet of Disney princess movies. However, upon watching it as a grown up, it becomes clear that Ariel is a totally stupid, selfish, awful person (er, fish or whatever species she technically is). And I have my doubts that her relationship with Eric would survive the resolution of her "Daddy Issues".
Sorry for ruining your childhood, everybody!
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Date: 2013-04-12 04:25 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-13 02:38 am (UTC)Buuuuuuuut as a I got older, I realized it followed the typical 'love-at-first-sight' Disney formula. She fell for a guy whom she didn't even know. =\
As bad as it was, the movie still hold a lot of good memories in my heart. I even watched the sequel with Ariel's daughter (didn't see the third) and the TV series from back in the day.
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Date: 2013-04-15 04:29 pm (UTC)Honestly, the dolls and general Bratz-esque designs of the characters creep me out. And I didn't even know there was a TV show attached until you made a post about it last week.
I'll give it a fair shot before I label it as "bad". But it'll be VERY hard for me to get past the awful character design.
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Date: 2013-04-13 06:57 pm (UTC)The movie is actually more interesting if you think of King Triton as the "star". He goes through the most change and growth in the movie and actually makes a very noble sacrifice in the end. As a grown up with a somewhat contentious relationship to my much younger sister, I relate to him WAY more than I ever did to Ariel.
I'm going to be marrying my first real crush from back in the day, so I can't say anything. :p
True. But I'm gonna assume that you would NEVER have thrown away your family and permanently changed your body for this man without at least having a conversation with him first. LOL
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Date: 2013-04-15 12:34 am (UTC)And Sebastian was always the "star" of the movie for me. XD
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Date: 2013-04-15 01:50 pm (UTC)It gets worse when her dad goes into a rage and destroys her beloved collection. He thought he was doing her a favor. All he did was chase her away from him. And then she does encounter Eric again, who doesn't recognize her as his savior since she can't talk. Despite this, he still takes her in, feeds and clothes her, and even spends time with her. It's no wonder that even if she initially had a crush on the human that it became something more, especially when he took on Ursula to save Ariel's life. Even her dad wouldn't be able to convince her that humans were bad after that. She had found the opposite to be true!
Ariel has never been a favorite of mine, I couldn't stand the cartoon, but she is not unworthy of being seen as a role model to kids. Especially kids that grow up being fed racist lies. Would that more kids would be like her in that respect, and find out the truth for themselves.
As for leaving my family behind...yes, yes I am. As all people who expect to marry do, some distance has to happen. And also, my fiancé gave up a lot to want to marry me, including receiving his dad's approval. Just because his dad doesn't like me doesn't make either of us foolish to want to be together.
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Date: 2013-04-15 04:44 pm (UTC)As for Triton being "racist"....it seems to me that he had good reasons to distrust humans (humans EAT fish; and mermaids are friends with fish). So it's a bit disingenuous (and, IMO, mildly offensive) to compare his behavior to actual, real-life racism (even if the film-makers did intend for it to be an allegory).
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Date: 2013-04-15 05:42 pm (UTC)Also, people harp on Ariel for trading her whole life for a man she never really met. Well...how else could see "meet" him when her father was forbidding her from getting any closer to the surface world all the time?
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Date: 2013-04-15 10:39 pm (UTC)Fairy tales, Little Mermaid included, were often morality tales. If one cannot relate it to real life, it has failed to do what it was meant to do. There's plenty of pointless entertainment out there, Disney tends not to be in that category - unless you watch its current t.v. shows. UGH. But, that's something I'm okay not discussing.
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Date: 2013-04-17 04:14 am (UTC)I understand that. But sometimes it's just impossible to predict how people will react to something. :P
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Date: 2013-04-17 08:53 am (UTC)So many aspects of life are trial and error. No getting around it.
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Date: 2013-04-15 12:27 am (UTC)No, this didn't ruin my childhood. But it's just another "bawww, Ariel's a terrible role model!" cry, the kind of thing Doug Walker has spoken out against. I am very disappoint in you, Brenda. -_-
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Date: 2013-04-15 12:57 am (UTC)I still love the movie and dig Ariel. And I would never ban my hypothetical children from watching it because of "bad morals". The movie/character flaws are only apparent if you over think it (and most children wont)
That said, you can't deny that Ariel's decision to leave her entire life behind (including all her friends AND family) for a boy she's never even spoken to was really frickin' stupid. Even by teenager standards.
If she was selfish, she wouldn't eventually try to say "Daddy I'm sorry!" when Triton was at Ursula's mercy, and save Eric's life twice!
I don't think she was sorry that she did it in the first place. It seemed to me that she was only sorry because things went horribly wrong instead of playing out the way she wanted them to.
I mean, before the shit hit the fan, Ariel didn't seem at all concerned that her dad (not to mention her sisters and the mermaid citizens) were likely worried sick because they had no clue where she was or if she was even alive.
Not thinking about that doesn't necessarily make her a monster; but it DOES make her an inconsiderate jerk.
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Date: 2013-04-15 02:31 am (UTC)Yeah, her decision was stupid even by teenager standards. But I don't think she really "loved" Eric, despite what she might have blurted out to her dad. She was in love with humans, their world, their things, and their culture. Eric was just her justification of getting there. THAT is selfish, I'll give you. But I think it started out as curiosity and turned into an obsession and a longing to leave her world behind BECAUSE her father forbade her from getting closer to the human world for reasons that were, to be blunt, racist. He and Ariel were equally at fault here: the writing just never made it clear since Ariel ends up getting everything she wanted while Triton has to just suck it up and deal with it.
And to be fair to Ariel and Eric, they did get to know each other better over the course of the two days we see them staying together. And Ariel couldn't even speak then, so that's quite the accomplishment.
I think things playing out differently from how she wanted and expected them to SHOWED her that it was a bad idea in the first place, especially when the person she made the deal with was explicitly showing that she had an evil plan behind it all along. Ursula was getting what she wanted at Triton's expense, and Ariel had helped her. I can totally buy that she WAS truthfully sorry for everything at that moment.
And before the shit hit the fan, the last time Ariel and her dad had interacted, he was a big jerk to her and destroyed her entire collection. She most likely thought she hated him at the time and naturally didn't give a crap if she was worrying him. Serves him right, she'd think. (This is just how she felt at the time, though, not how she REALLY felt deep down.) Sure she was an inconsiderate jerk, but only because her father had been an inconsiderate jerk to her. In the end, I sympathize with them both, which I think I'm meant to.
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Date: 2013-04-15 04:53 pm (UTC)Honestly, I never intended to start a debate with this comic. It was just supposed to be a dumb parody of a dopey fairy tale movie.
Besides, it is totally possible to love something and still admit it has flaws. Just sayin'.
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Date: 2013-04-15 05:45 pm (UTC)Oh of course I know that! I do it all the time!
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Date: 2013-04-17 04:39 am (UTC)But that doesn't stop me from having fun with it. Because it's still just a movie at the end of the day.
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Date: 2013-04-17 06:23 pm (UTC)I'm also bugged by the "feminist" reverse sexism that most people who decry Ariel's actions have. So it's sexist that a girl sells away her whole life for a man (when it wasn't even really about the man, it was about getting what she'd dreamed of: he was just her reason for finally taking action), so she ought to not think for herself or act independently, and should just obey her father, who is currently the most prominent man in her life. So...don't give up your life for a man, but conform to your current status quo because of a man's wishes? HUH?
Honestly, I sometimes wonder why Katzenburg DIDN'T just cut "Part Of Your World". Nobody seems to pay attention to that number if they think Ariel was JUST wanting to be human due to an obsessio with Prince Eric. (Incidentally, that song's antithesis is "Under Da Sea." No wonder people are against Ariel: Sebastian made a better point with a better song! XD)